I am not really a t-shirt and jeans type of gal. My husband wants me to be. Sometimes, we semi-compromise. Meaning, I wear a t-shirt, heels, and big necklace and we both pretend it is a vintage t-shirt and flip-flops. I also wear my hair in a ponytail for him. That is the way he likes it, and the less I have to do my hair, the better. No compromise needed there. Any compromises on your end?