My husband and I differ on what I should wear. He would like to see me one of two ways: What he calls “surfer girl”. This is a nicer way to say he likes a ratty long-sleeved t-shirt and jeans. Or, what I call “Lady of the Night”. Which translates to looking like I work at night. On a corner. For money. Obviously, I usually dress for myself.
Unfortunately for him, I rarely wear a super casual t-shirt and jeans look, and I never wear an outfit that would make me some money. But, over the past two weeks I have worn outfits that he has comment on. Several times. So, I thought I would share. Oh, and he also likes my hair in a ponytail, which is probably why I wear it up so much. I have to give him something, right?
Antro dress and sweater, Banana Republic brooch, Steve Madden boots, Gucci bag.
Old Navy sweater, old pashmina, Nine West shoes, J Brand jeans.
He loves this sweater.
So, do you dress for your mate? Or do you dress for yourself? I will say I give in sometimes and put on something I know he will like, but 9 times out of 10, I dress for myself.